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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • You didn’t do anything wrong, especially if it was a social group chat intentionally created for that. I think the idea of “never talk to your colleagues” is a bit wild tbh. There’s a time and a place, certainly, but unless the chat was created strictly for talking about schoolwork, you did nothing wrong. In many courses I’ve taken, professors will create these social spaces (especially in virtual environments) specifically for people to network and get to know each other. Don’t overdo it, but unless you were literally spamming unrelated crap, I don’t see any issue with what you did.

    Don’t feel bad that it bothered you either. It wasn’t a very kind or necessary comment, and if the person was bothered by the notifications they could’ve just turned them off, they didn’t have to try to embarrass you. But as others have said, you’ll hopefully grow out of giving a shit when people are jerks.


  • I think Western society/individualism has erased a lot of this but for centuries before colonialism and still in a lot of indigenous and non-western societies, it’s expected to respect your elders and take care of them. In turn, they should be aiming to build that respect for themselves and to be a good ancestor for those preceding them. You see this all across indigenous belief systems - your society/nature will take care of you just as you took care of it.

    The reason nobody did shit for us is because those beliefs have been overridden by colonialism and individualistic mindsets. Humans aren’t meant to be as selfish as we’ve become, that’s why we’re so unhappy.