Alternatively, the best action is the one that gets done.

or piss. We love to piss on things we hate. Been doing it for centuries.

I think the whole heart thing comes from where you feel it and hate absolutely occupies the heart too. Same way we associate sadness with heartbreak.

https://youtu.be/9caFz9CFdpo

When I was a kid this was how I knew spring and summer had come. One nested in the trees in our back yard and was very loud. I remember being scared of the sound for a few days before getting used to it.