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Cake day: January 3rd, 2024

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  • We have a ways to go in the self reliance category. We have excellent examples in our lives, back-to-the-land friends and our relatives who were small scale farmers. We have a mortgage and vehicles and other big liabilities, but bit by bit we chip away at that and little bills, but we’re just frugal without extensive budgeting. We kind of just always kept living like we were poor university students.

    Last year we installed a DIY heat pump (Mr. Cool brand), about $4,000 all-in, and it will pay itself off late next year. Most of what we buy is second hand, and we barter a bunch.


  • Oh, thanks and good question!

    Well, in the spirit of the moment, don’t forget to take stock and maybe figure out how far along you are, and acknowledge your successes. Over time, they will build up, and it takes so long to do some of this stuff that you kind of forget that it is even an accomplishment. This whole thread is a good example.

    Being genX, and thus cynical by nurture, it’s easy to be discouraged or give up in advance. I had to kind of gamify bits and pieces to keep going. Also, we had to adjust our risk scaling: yes nuclear annihilation is there, and fascism even in Canada (well here we fuckn are eh), but really not as likely as an earthquake or fire so start there. Likewise, living with financial risks, like contract work or job mobility is more of an art and skill than I thought, but helped with pursuing these overall goals.

    And the biggest warning maybe is that I have ADHD so the jackofalltrades thing kind of works, but it requires hyperfocus then the ability to move on without abandoning a skill, so YMMV. Assess your strengths and work from there.

    First principle of an emergency response: am I safe? Overreach is risky for all.