I think CCW is a pretty good idea if this is already a reoccurring problem. Definitely don’t plan on brandishing it, but the way you will feel while some asshole tries to degrade you is a special one. You also need to practice, regularly.

Lol it’s both, I’ve been on the famed swedish booze cruise with family over there and it’s a yearly tradition for them to stock up on liquor, but it’s also a weekend long party on a boat. One bartender was concerned that 14 year old me didn’t want any vodka in my red bull.